top of page
My Lover, The Rabbi by Wayne Koestenbaum

My Lover, The Rabbi by Wayne Koestenbaum

£14.99Price

Publishes 26 March

 

To the untrained eye, the rabbi is far from desirable. He is lofty and unkempt, he is ageing and his congregation is ever diminishing. But to one man, he is the object of obsession.

 

Our narrator adores the rabbi and worships the universe between his legs. But so too does he bristle at being relegated to the peripheries of the rabbi’s life. When they’re apart, he manically contemplates every element of the rabbi’s being: his absent husband; his first (and only) wife and child, both now deceased; his unstable, yet alluring, adopted son. Until, in a bid to help sustain their relationship, our narrator embarks on an increasingly urgent quest to better understand his mercurial lover – one which threatens to upturn the lives of both men.

 

Lavish and lascivious, My Lover, the Rabbi is an exuberant exploration of devotion and desire, as well as a careening Catherine wheel of a novel about queer family-making, one which is attuned to the mysterious constellations and patterns that shape our lives.

 

-----

 

'Like Ingeborg Bachman's Malina, My Lover, the Rabbi circles and penetrates the outer edges of perception and experience. It's a brilliant book, written with manic zeal and cool strategy.' - Chris Kraus

 

'My literary version of heaven. Neurotic erotic bliss.' - Melissa Broder

 

'Ecstatic, erotic, electric, and utterly captivating. You won't read anything else like it this year, possibly ever.' - Andrew McMillan

Quantity
Expected to ship by 26 March
  • Details

    Imprint: Granta Books

    Published: 26 March 2026

    ISBN: 9781803514000

    Type: Paperback 

Notice to UK, EU, and European Customers

EU and Northern Irish customers: We are sorry to say that, due to the new GPSR rules and regulations for EU shipping, we will not be able to ship to the EU or Northern Ireland for the foreseeable future.

Non-EU customers: Shipments to countries outside of the European Union will not be affected, but you may still incur customs charges. Please check your local import rules and regulations.

Social Media

  • Instagram
  • X
  • Facebook

Gay's The Word

66 Marchmont Street

London WC1N 1AB (Map)

Visit the Bookshop

Contact Us

Online Shop

Be In The Know

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Thanks for submitting!

Privacy PolicyShipping & Returns

Opening Hours

 

Mondays: CLOSED

Tuesday - Saturday: OPEN 11am - 6pm

Sunday: OPEN 1 - 6pm

© 2024 by Gay's The Word. Find Out More.

NONCYP Ltd. T/A Gay's The Word, Reg 1315476, Registered in England and Wales

Registered Office: Suite 1, 3rd Floor, 11-12 St James's Square, London, SW1Y 4LB

bottom of page